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Esquire Challenges Dr. Eben Alexander's Credibility & Story

For a comprehensive look at the controversy that erupted from Esquire's expose' of Dr. Eben Alexander, including an NBC news report, a summary of the Esquire article, a video of the Dalai Lama and Dr. Alexander, a list of NDE-related networks that hosted conversations, comments from these networks, and a short list of take-aways for how to view this emotionally charged situation (and others like them), go here:

A Teachable Moment: Esquire Versus Dr. Eben Alexander
By David Sunfellow
July 12, 2013


August 28, 2013

Alex Tsakiris of Skeptiko Interviews Robert Mays


Skeptiko host Alex Tsakiris interviews Robert Mays about his recently published article, Esquire article on Eben Alexander distorts the facts. During the interview Mays talks about what his investigation discovered:

Alex Tsakiris: The Dittrich article in Esquire, it’s extremely well-crafted. Let’s give them that. And he builds this case with the facts that he has, but he really builds this whole thing around — this guy’s a liar. He approaches it from a number of different angles, some of which are really substantive to the story like the coma thing, and these other things that he picks at, but they do kind of stick in your mind as you’re reading the article. Like the rainbow thing. Tell us what the rainbow thing is all about and then tell us what you found out.

Robert Mays: In the book, on Sunday morning according to the story that Dr. Alexander wrote, his sister, Phyllis, and his mother, Betty, were coming into the hospital and saw a perfect rainbow. They felt this was a sign. Dittrich took this as saying Heaven itself was heralding Eben Alexander’s return. Dittrich then asked the meteorologist whether there could have been a rainbow then and the meteorologist said, “Well, the day was clear so there couldn’t have been.”

I said, “Well, wait a minute. Two people said they saw it.” So I called Phyllis Alexander and she said, “Definitely we saw a rainbow. Betty remarked that it was a perfect rainbow.” They talked about it. Then they went immediately up to Eben’s room and there Eben was, sitting up. So that was the time that he had recovered.

Alex Tsakiris: And just to add a little tidbit that you talk about in your article that I thought was great and is the real kind of journalism that we would have liked to have gotten from Esquire is that you not only talked to these eyewitnesses, which he did not–he just went on some meteorological report–but they also had evidence. It was such a spectacular event that they had written an email.

Robert Mays: Right. That day Phyllis said she had written to friends in Boston who were praying for Eben. She said, “Eben has recovered and I saw a beautiful rainbow as I was coming into the hospital.” So there’s that documentation, as well. So Luke Dittrich’s argument there is empty.

Alex Tsakiris: It’s shoddy journalism. If you’re trying to debunk something, which I’ve run across so many times, that’s one thing. You’re a debunker. You’re just out there throwing whatever you can against the wall and seeing what sticks. But if you’re Esquire, who still has some kind of legitimacy as a journalistic enterprise, you have to do more than this. You have to talk to witnesses. You have to get their side of it. I think this lays a pattern for what else we’re about to talk about.


Alex Tsakiris: Here’s what you get from Luke Dittrich’s story in Esquire — Dr. Laura Potter discredits Dr. Eben Alexander’s story. It couldn’t have happened the way he described. He wasn’t really in a coma. He was delirious.

So why don’t you pick up from there, Robert? You’ve said you put a couple calls in to Dr. Potter at this point in the story. You haven’t heard back. What happens next?

Robert Mays: I received, from members of the family copies of emails that they had been sending back and forth. In that was a statement that Dr. Potter had made. Later I learned it was a statement that she had issued to a news organization. Apparently that news organization did not use it. In any case, that statement was that she was misquoted and taken out of context. So I said, “Whoa. This is really quite strange.”

Alex Tsakiris: In fact, she stated that her account was misrepresented, and that she felt like the questions weren’t fair. And this is backed up by what you heard from the family, right? Because the family talks to Dr. Potter and she’s apologizing, saying “Gosh, I don’t know how this happened.” That’s what I took away from your article. Is that what you got from talking to the family?

Robert Mays: Right. And basically Dr. Potter expressed to the family that she had been misrepresented and that her words were taken out of context by Luke Dittrich and that he had led her to say certain things.

The question that Luke Dittrich says he posed to her I don’t think is a question he actually posed to her when she said, “Yes, conscious but delirious.” It would be very interesting to see what exactly happened in that interview and just understand what she was responding to.

Alex Tsakiris: I think it would be more than interesting. I think it’s absolutely his responsibility, given the damage that this article has done and sought to do from the beginning. There’s an added level of journalistic responsibility to get your facts right. These things being called into question this way demands that he really back up his claims.

Read and/or listen to the complete interview here.

To download an MP3 copy of the interview, click here (MP3).


August 18, 2013 Update

By PMH Atwater

Original Link

"The book Proof of Heaven honestly and effectively portrays the near-death experience of Eben Alexander III, M.D. His case has been mentioned several times in this newsletter. I was one of the near-death researchers he turned to, and I have interviewed him at length. I can personally verify that what happened to him, although unique in its medical components, was typical of such experiences -- what it consisted of and how he responded to it – including the pattern of aftereffects which he now displays. I have no hesitation, then or now, in presenting Dr. Alexander as an honest, loving, and caring individual, who has done his best to share the elements of his close brush with death, how medically "at the edge" he was, the near-death episode that filled and expanded his world, his recovery, and the reason he feels he survived. . . to share the message of an afterlife with others around the world. His sense of mission is strong. Like so many of us, though, he crossed paths with a staff writer for a magazine who misquoted him and failed to thoroughly check out what appeared to be facts. The result was a magazine article printed in Esquire Magazine that defamed him in ways that have been difficult at first to counter. Clearly, there seems to be a case of fraud here, or at least of an author who did not do all the fact-checking that could and should have been done. If you are interested in the truth in this matter and how the Esquire author "goofed," please access this link for a complete and accurate accounting of the real facts."


August 14, 2013 Update

NDE Researcher Robert Mays examines some of the facts surrounding the article that Luke Dittrich wrote for Esquire about Dr. Eben Alexander.

To read the complete article, click here or here (pdf).



...if Dittrich had interviewed Phyllis, she would have told him:she and her mother saw a rainbow as they were entering the hospital about 1 PM. It was to the right of the entrance (north of the hospital) where there are mountains. They commented on the rainbow and Betty noted, "It's a perfect rainbow!" When they turned the corner into Eben's ICU room a few moments later, Eben was sitting up in bed.

Later that day, Phyllis emailed friends back in Boston, telling them about Eben's miraculous recovery -- and about the rainbow she and her mother had witnessed. She offered to show me the email.


...if Dittrich had asked her, Holley would have confirmed the story: indeed, at some time in the ER Eben had shouted out "God, help me!" and everyone present including Holley and Michael Sullivan had rushed to his side -- Holley had been just outside the curtain -- but Alexander fell back unresponsive. Those present were given hope that he was recovering, but those hopes faded quickly.

I spoke with Holley Alexander recently. She said that this incident occurred about an hour or so after she had arrived in the ER with Eben. "It happened before they sedated him, while the doctors were trying to get vital signs and spinal fluid and all that. I said to Michael [Sullivan], 'He spoke!' and Eben kept writhing. Dr. Potter might not have heard it. She was in and out, checking scans, spinal fluid, so it's very likely that she wasn't there.

And yes, this happened before Alexander was intubated, so Eben Alexander's only embellishment was to fudge the timing of the incident, for dramatic effect -- a trivial adjustment.


Dittrich did not recheck with Dr. Potter and did not show her how he was quoting her. Had he done so, he would have gotten a surprise.

Sylvia White reported that Dr. Laura Potter became concerned after she was contacted by the press when the Esquire article first appeared, and subsequently expressed her alarm about the way her remarks were being twisted. Dr. Potter made the following statement in an email:

"I am saddened by and gravely disappointed by the article recently published in Esquire. The content attributed to me is both out of context and does not accurately portray the events around Dr. Eben Alexander's hospitalization. I felt my side of the story was misrepresented by the reporter. I believe Dr. Alexander has made every attempt to be factual in his accounting of events." -- Dr. Laura Potter

So Luke Dittrich's portrayal of the events regarding Alexander's illness is inaccurate. Dittrich took Dr. Potter's statements out of context, twisted them and misrepresented them.


Now we see that all three key flaws in Eben Alexander's story have turned out to be totally false or trivial. And Luke Dittrich is relying especially on this last one to build a case that Alexander's story is a complete fabrication, and his heavenly experience a hallucination or a fantasy.

All it would have taken was a simple conversation with two or three of the people identified in Proof of Heaven as witnesses -- who were available to be interviewed -- to corroborate or definitively refute Alexander's account. In this last case, Dittrich's argument rested solely on the assessment of Dr. Laura Potter. Yet had he asked her, Dr. Potter would have confirmed the accuracy of Alexander's story. Likewise Holley, Michael Sullivan, Phyllis Alexander and Sylvia White would have confirmed the accuracy of the story in Proof of Heaven.


To Esquire's Editor in Chief David Granger, Luke Dittrich's story is great journalism. To me the Dittrich article is shoddy and irresponsible journalism -- shoddy because of Luke Dittrich's and his Esquire editors' evident failures: failure to consider alternate explanations (rainbow), failure to check with the cited witnesses (Phyllis and Betty Alexander), failure to verify information with additional witnesses (Holley Alexander, Michael Sullivan and others), failure to check with medical experts (on the likely cause of coma), failure to check again on crucial testimony of the sole cited witness (Laura Potter), failure to read the book carefully (Dr. Wade's statement about Alexander's coma), failure to verify conclusions via other witnesses (Holley Alexander and Sylvia White), failure to exercise care in asserting erroneous facts (use of drugs was not mentioned in the book), failure to exercise care in quoting and interpreting recorded remarks (Dalai Lama), and failure to exercise common sense in interpreting the meaning of statements (Dalai Lama).


July 8, 2013 Update

This page originally included most of Esquire's article. A letter from Debra S. Weaver, a lawyer representing Esquire magazine, asked us to remove this information (see below). If you would like to read the complete article (and pay Esquire 1.99 to do so), go here. You can find a comprehensive overview here. I will also publish links to other places you can read all or portions of Esquire's article after this letter.

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Therefore, I expect your immediate response to this email confirming that you have deleted Mr. Dittrich’s  article from your website, and confirming that you will make no unauthorized postings of material from Esquire magazine. Your failure to comply with this demand will cause Esquire to consider pursuit of all available legal options. This letter is written without prejudice to the rights of Hearst Communications, Inc. and Esquire, all of which are expressly reserved.

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The Prophet
By Luke Dittrich
July 2, 2013

A Teachable Moment: Esquire Versus Dr. Eben Alexander
By David Sunfellow
July 12, 2013

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July 8, 2013 Update

Several networks are hosting lively discussions about the controversy that has erupted around Dr. Eben Alexander. Here are three: NHNE's NDE Network, The Near-Death Experience Research Foundation (NDERF) Network, and Skeptiko. You can also find pertinent comments on Eben Alexander's Facebook Page and NHNE's NDE Facebook Page.

Here's a related comment that I (David Sunfellow) posted on NHNE's NDE Network:

"Wholesale fraud in Eben's case seems very unlikely to me. I also agree that we must exercise conscious, careful, caring discernment.

"I'll go a step further, however, and say that we all -- every single one of us -- have areas in our lives where shadow issues are running amuck. The way we view and react to people and situations on the outside, is usually an accurate gauge for how we are treating ourselves on the inside. As within, so without. Are we really, deeply looking at our own issues -- the places within ourselves where we lie, cut corners, exaggerate, refuse to see the truth, avoid admitting mistakes? Do we also bristle, boil, and attack others for daring to notice the undone areas in ourselves? Or are we able to remain calm and even-handed? Do we make healing, and an honest search for the truth, more important than saving face and getting our feathers ruffled?

"Treating myself -- and others -- with deep love and respect, while at the same time, holding both accountable, is an extremely tall order in this world. We prefer -- deeply prefer -- to swing one way or another: ignore all the developmental/dark side business, or jump in shoot everything up.

"Which reminds me of one of the most important insights I think NDEs have to offer us. They offer us a breathtaking example of how to live healthy, balanced lives. On the one hand, they use life reviews to call every single transgression to mind. None of us gets away with anything. And on the other hand, we are absolutely, wholeheartedly and unconditionally loved. We are not condemned for our shortcomings, but encouraged to become ever more full blown, crystal clear embodiments of the divine. That, I think, is the proper attitude.

"Again, this is a profoundly difficult posture to maintain in this world: to treat ourselves and one another with the same kind of discerning eye and loving heart that we are treated with on the other side. But that, I think, is what we need to strive for.

"Back to Eben. The question I'm asking myself right now is this: Am I treating Eben, Luke Dittrich, Esquire, and everyone else involved in this situation like we are treated on the other side -- in a loving, clear seeing, constructive way? Or am I swinging to extremes? As within, so without..."


July 5, 2013 Update

The Dalai Lama and Dr. Eben Alexander participated in a symposium entitled "Life and After Life" that took place at Maitripa College in Portland, Oregon, USA on May 10, 2013. This is the gathering that reporter Luke Dittrich referred to in the article below. The pertinent comments begin around 0:46:05 in this video. Dittrich's comment about this event appears at the end of his article.


July 2, 2013 Update

Alexander has issued a statement to NBC News in response to the Esquire article:

Original Link

"I stand by every word in this book and have made its message the purpose of my life,’’ he said. “Esquire's cynical article distorts the facts of my 25-year career as a neurosurgeon and is a textbook example of how unsupported assertions and cherry-picked information can be assembled at the expense of the truth."

Statement from Alexander via a Simon & Schuster spokesman:

Original Link

"I wrote a truthful account of my experiences in PROOF OF HEAVEN and have acknowledged in the book both my professional and personal accomplishments and my setbacks. I stand by every word in this book and have made its message the purpose of my life. Esquire’s cynical article distorts the facts of my 25-year career as a neurosurgeon and is a textbook example of how unsupported assertions and cherry-picked information can be assembled at the expense of the truth."



Esquire has published a must-read article about Dr. Eben Alexander, his near-death experience, and best-selling book, "Proof of Heaven." Among other things, the article describes a series of malpractice lawsuits from Dr. Alexander's past (including one where he falsified medical records), and a long string of inconsistencies in Alexander's story...

By Luke Dittrich
July 2, 2013

Before "Proof of Heaven" made Dr. Eben Alexander rich and famous as a "man of science" who'd experienced the afterlife, he was something else: a neurosurgeon with a troubled history and a man in need of reinvention.

Read the complete article here.

To learn more about Dr. Eben Alexander and his near-death experience, go here.

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David, thanks for posting this article, which, at least to me, reveals once again that relying on the word of anyone who is earning really big money with a best-selling and self-proclaimed "true story" of personal enlightenment, alien visitation, life after death, or "You can eat free cheeseburgers from major fast food outlets if you only know the secret phrase in my book," all too often opens the door to potential disappointment.

One fact in the Esquire article calling into question the veracity of Alexander and his story, at least for me, was the part where we learned that the title of the book was decided in a meeting between the publisher and news media outlets that would soon promote it. I can just see all the high level marketing experts visualizing millions and millions of dollars, thinking "Wow, we have a new book on a topic that the rubes will buy into hook, line, and sinker because the author is a medical doctor and his story proves there's life after death."

Another fact I found quite telling came with the Dali Lama's comments when both he and Alexander were part of a graduation ceremony and the Dali Lama says of Alexander:

  • "For that also, we must investigate," the Dalai Lama says. "Through investigation we must get sure that person is truly reliable." He wags a finger in Alexander's direction. When a man makes extraordinary claims, a "thorough investigation" is required, to ensure "that person reliable, never telling lie," and has "no reason to lie."

Forgive my cynicism, but from personal and business experiences since 1993 with various gurus in the natural health and self-improvement fields, I no longer believe anything that I haven't experienced personally for myself... and in a couple of instances I don't fully trust the "truth" of my own experiences. If money is involved, especially BIG money, all too often the person earning that money, in my experience at least, has been unreliable, untruthful, and with many reasons to lie. And each of those reasons has a nice $ on them.

In closing, thanks again for pointing out this important article. Some will no doubt call it a hatchet job on Dr. Alexander, but for me the piece contained more than enough factual information to call into question Alexander's overall veracity. Dr. Alexander's Proof of Heaven may well end up being the Near Death Experience equivalent of the Kumaré DVD, though I doubt that we'll ever have an admission from the good doctor as clear or as true as that which came from film maker and faux guru Vikram Gandhi.

Hey Brother Chet,

You are one of my favorite "straight-shooters" on the planet. You not only have the ability to call a spade a spade when it comes to the behavior of others, but you are also self-aware enough to admit that you don't always trust "the truth" of your own experiences. More of us need to follow your example. 

For me, the Esquire expose' on Eben is a wake-up call for the near-death experience movement (and everybody else, for that matter). One of the take home lessons is that it is important to know about and deal with the darker, unseen, unhealed, shadowy sides of our nature. Spiritual experiences DO NOT erase or magically heal the human sides of our natures that we have not dealt with. In other words, if the wounds we carry encourage us to cheat, take short cuts, play fast and loose with facts on the before side of a spiritual experience, there is a strong possibility that these same behaviors will surface on the after side of our experience as well -- until they have been seen for what they are, exposed to the light of truth, and healed. 

Another take home lesson is that telling the truth is super important. This shows up repeatedly, and often very dramatically in life reviews. Again and again and again people are astonished to discover that their every thought, word and deed has been HONESTLY and ACCURATELY recorded. While lying about everything is a fundamental way of being in this world; we can't lie about anything on the other side and get away with it. And that includes everything we've said and done in our earthly lives. If we have lived lies, those lies, along with all the consequences that arose from them, become painfully obvious.

What we are supposed to learn from this, I think, is that telling the truth -- first to ourselves and then to others -- is a supremely important value. One might even say that we can measure the degree to which we have entered higher states of consciousness to the degree that we are able to see, speak, and live the truth.

Bottom line: I think we are supposed to learn to live as truthfully in this world as we do on the other side. If that's the case, then it really behooves us to pay attention to stories like the one Esquire published. While I think we should all have love and compassion for Eben and the wild adventure he has been on, I also think we must insist on truthful accounts and encourage him to come clean if he has been less than honest. This will not only help clean things up for Eben, and his story, but it will also set a good example, and carve some helpful grooves, for other NDErs to follow when they come forth with their stories.

While "lies will keep us captive," "the truth," as Jesus reportedly said, "will set us free."

Very well said. I agree in full.

A sad and troubling article. Alexander might have told his full story in all of its painful detail and it would only have added to the strength of his account if it had included acknowledgment and apology. Stories of repentance and renewal are part of all accounts of profound spiritual transformation. Now it will be quite difficult for him to continue as before.

I recall hearing his account on a talk show and was impressed and interested. That was in 2011. Then his book was published with a title that made it clear that it was intended to be a popular best seller rather than a serious book with clinical data comparable to the works of Parnia, Sabom and van Lommel. I read it quickly and was moved again by the account, but I was surprised and disappointed by the lack of serious content.

Since the experience he has become a media 'name' without taking the time to develop the wisdom and depth that only comes from silence and waiting and listening. I do not question the experience itself. But there are obviously very serious ethical and character issues regarding other aspects of his life that could have been addressed honestly in the book. I am now completely confused by the account of the coma; there are clearly discrepancies in the account but I am not clear as to what is true and what is not. That is the one part of the article itself that is not clear.

Some of the details of his legal and ethical troubles have been available on the internet. I had seen them before. They are public knowledge. But the full story is far more disturbing. 

This saddens me very much.  I was so disappointed in what Dr. Melvin Morse did which brought a dark cloud over experiencers simply because Dr. Morse was considered a respectable doctor who lectured on the NDE phenomena. Even though what he did wrong had nothing to do with NDEs, just his association with us connects us all together to some degree.  It didn't help experiencers to have him in the news about wrongdoing.

And now the controversy with Dr. Eben Alexander really emphasizes my disappointment in their behavior. We look up to professionals in their field and we expect them to be honest and professionally sound.  I know that there are always at least two sides to a story, and I don't know if we are getting all of the facts straight in this article either.  I do believe as you do, David, that it is very, very important that when we share our experiences, that we do NOT exaggerate the events.  We're supposed to be sharing in truth! It's our responsibility and duty to all people that we be honest and as accurate as we can possibly be. If any one of us changes the truth of what happened so that they can make a financial gain, not only is it perpetrating a lie, but it's deceiving in the name of truth.  I have a problem with that and I don't understand why any experiencer would even think to lie about what really happened.  

But on the other side, I also know how difficult it is to publish a book where the editors don't want to tweak it with a little fabrication that may help it to sell more. I know that many authors had been disappointed in how much their books were altered to get published.

I've considered publishing some books about my experiences too, but I've had a hard time finding a publisher who would not add their own twist for the purpose to entertain the readers and make more sales.  The book publishers that I've had contact with were focused on sales, and not really the truth.  I was adamant that my experiences will NOT be manipulated for entertainment and sales.  My experiences are my own, and I feel responsible for sticking with the truth.

So, going back to Eben's book, any of the changes in his book may not be entirely his decision.  Once he agreed to let them publish his book, many publishers will take liberties to alter things by adding or removing a lot of what Eben told them.  He signed a contract with the publishers, so he agreed to whatever the publishers wanted to print.

The writer of this  doesn't know when to stop typing!
          My husband Charles Whitfield, who is a best selling author and physician and I just zoomed through the article from Esquire  on Eben (who we have never met). And we believe it is trash. I'm not defending him because I don't know him but first I got tired of reading every detail of what people were wearing and every detail of what was in the room. Second, having worked in neuro ICU myself -- neurosurgeons get the bottom of the barrel and are constantly open to irate patients some of whom are delirious most of the time. 
We were sued once and what we learned in the lawsuit: Anyone, can make up anything about anyone else and sue them.
And anyone, who has the courage to stand up for something they truly believe in -- will draw "fire" from others who are either jealous or don't want to believe what the person is saying -- especially in the NDE world because there are so many fundamentalists out there that want to discredit us. 
I have been following the comments up on Youtube for my 18 minute interview with Present. I've got over 23,000 views and there are the fundamentalists who rip into me because I have not sworn my soul to ONLY Jesus. Then there are the sweethearts who needed to hear what I have to say. Meanwhile, if what the fundys are saying is true -- I should be burning in hell right now.
Anyone who writes anything about NDEs leaves them self wide open to be ripped apart by someone who wants to project their own negativity.
This is why I Love writing books but do not put myself out there to promote them. I only talk to professional organizations that have some sense of ethics. And Charlie and I stopped using publishers because they alter what we say or tell us what to write to keep it commercial. We do print on demand and although we don't sell half as many books -- we can keep it "pure." This way we enjoy our writing.
There's  more to this story than this trash from Esquire. 

Thanks Barbara.  I appreciate you sharing your thoughts about this.  As I said, there are always at least two sides to a story.  I think from this article, that Luke Dittrich was deliberately looking for things to discredit Eben.  For him to name this article "Prophet", so big and bold gold lettering, really struck me with a negative feeling before I even read it.  I just automatically felt that the writer was going to smack him, and he did.

I'm not saying that what he wrote wasn't true, and if it is, then I feel disappointed in Eben's decisions, but I also am aware of some of the tactics that the media plays to stir up controversy.  I have met Eben, but I don't know him. I felt that he was a gentleman with a serious disposition.  I have no idea what his character is about, but I can't take every word that Luke wrote either.  We have to take into consideration Luke's motives. He hadn't stepped in Eben's shoes to get to know Eben.

None of us are perfect, so people shouldn't expect experiencers to be perfect examples of exemplary character.  We are human just like everybody else.  Even though we've experienced the other side, this world plays by another set of rules.  It's very difficult to balance ourselves between the two realms.  If we come across as "prophets", there is sure to follow those who want to discredit and attack our character, even if they have to make up lies about us.  I've been there too.  People have made up lies about me and it really hurts when people choose to believe the lies instead of the real me.  Those people don't know me!  

Because I have been a target of verbal assaults of harassment for sharing my experiences on public forums in the past, I put myself out there to be at their mercy.  I have to say that I did not expect people to be so closed-minded and cruel. It was a traumatizing experience for me and it has taken me years to put all of that behind me.  Because I know that some people judge us in ignorance, and spread their cunning lies, I'm not going to swallow everything that any writer writes about experiencers.  They may be right or they may be wrong, but I suspect that it's a little of both. 

The article really hit me. I don't know Alexander's side of the story, and I very much wish he would comment in detail. The comment quoted above about cherry-picked and unsupported assertions has for me the opposite effect than intended.

Two things seem clear and supported enough. He has been in an unsual amount of malpractice trouble and his attending physician, who says she herself induced his coma, has a very different story of how his coma came about.

Those things, especially the second, are very serious, for they have the effect of undermining two of the main pillars of the book. Why did we treat his story as being so important? Well, two of the main reasons were, first, that he was presented as having impressive credentials as a neurosurgeon, and hence as someone in an expert position to judge the neurological issues in question. And, second, that his rare strain of bacterial meningitis provided an almost perfect case of mimicking actual brain death, making conscious experience impossible, and making recovery extremely unlikely.

Now I personally do not doubt that he had the NDE that he shares. But if the sources quoted in this article are even halfway reliable, then I would have preferred the more modest, warts-and-all story that fits their testimony. I would have preferred to hear that he has struggled in his practice as a physician, what those struggles were, and how he views them now, post-NDE. I would have preferred to hear that he was in a standard medically induced coma, along with any extra evidence he has that supports the idea that his brain was incapable of conscious experience due to meningitis.

I'm not saying I know what the truth is here. I'm just saying that I always prefer the more complicated, less sensational truth to a cracking good story. If the point of the story is its truth, as a window onto the truth, then all other priorities come after the all-important one of pure factuality.

I really do hope he comes out and addresses this story in detail. I lost faith in that standard "deny all charges" response a long time ago. When the charges have weight--and quoting his attending physician certainly has weight from my standpoint--then waving away the accusations as ridiculous does not do. Until he does address these issues, I'll continue to think of him as having a profound and life-changing NDE, in circumstances that remain unknown to me.

You've articulated my concerns perfectly, Robert. I would also add that since Eben has admitted publicly that the publishers chose the title of his book and that portions of his original story were edited out of the book, I would like to know what, exactly, the publishers changed in Eben's book. Here's a related comment from PMH Atwater about this:

From PMH Atwater’s E-Newsletter
November 13, 2012

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“There is one factual error in the book on page 78, where he states that he was allowed to die harder, and travel deeper, than almost all other NDE subjects. Almost all? Well, not exactly true, but sort-of. Come to find out his editor insisted that this line be in the book, even though Eben did not agree and felt it was a stretch. Seems to be the way of publishing these days — when in doubt, exaggerate. There are several who evidenced medical conditions similar to Eben’s…”

In this interview with AfterLifeTV's Bob Olson, Eben mentions that some of his original story was edited out of the book. These comments begin at 0:36:20 in the interview below. Was any of the substance of his experience changed? Eben indicates in this interview that he stuck to the facts and avoided changing things that certain people might want him to. He didn't say he saw Jesus, for example, when he didn't. And he DID talk about riding on the wings of butterflies even though he knew such imagery would probably be ridiculed. 


There you go!  His book has been altered by the publisher.  I agree with what PMH said about the factual error on page 78.  I've read many accounts where people have been clinically dead for longer than Eben was, and also many accounts where they traveled deeper than Eben did.  In my own experiences, I feel that I've gone deeper than Eben did, even though I did not experience the "death process".

Eben's experience seems to me to be just the tip of the iceburg!  (mine as well).  There's always so much more to learn and experience!

Robert, I really do agree with what you said.  I hope that you didn't think that I "deny all charges".  I want the truth to come out, but I don't know either of these men enough to make any judgment of what the truth is in this case.  I've learned a long time ago to keep an open mind before jumping onboard anyone's word.  Unless I've been there, seen it, witnessed it for myself, I cannot conclude in favor of Eben nor Luke.  

Hard Times on the Prophet Front
By Nancy Evans Bush
Author of Dancing Past the Dark
Ex-President, The International Association for Near-Death Studies, Inc. (IANDS)
July 4, 2013

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Over three-plus decades, a starry-eyed media, mostly secular, has done with near-death and similar experience exactly what fundamentalists have done with religion: They have literalized it, presented it journalistically as they would a new archeological find, turned experiences of the indescribable into the prose of factual reporting. And because NDEs so often sound very like traditional teachings about heaven and occasionally hell, not only the experiencers but religious and secular audiences alike take them as literal truth.

Proof of Heaven! they cry. Evidence of Afterlife!

They make for great media. And great media creates stars of the experiencers:

She was right there, at the gates! He was actually in heaven, saw all this stuff! Wow. Special. “Ooooo!” You have been to the light; tell us what we are to do!

The problem is that NDEs and their kin are experiences, not of the material world, but of the human psyche, and the psyche is not public domain but private. A whole psyche goes into an NDE -- ego, shadow, temperament, concepts and all -- so when the individual comes out with a brand new world view, a whole transformed sense of reality, that psyche is still grounded in the old ego, shadow, temperament, and all.

What is needed is a few years of living quietly to process the event and integrate it into a reshaped wholeness that can survive daily life. (Not by accident did Jesus retreat to the wilderness, and the Buddha to sit under his tree, Teresa to her cell in Avila.)

But the media wants stories and stars now. There is no time to reflect. Producers and editors, managers, directors, and handlers all have ideas about how personal stories can be polished just a bit to create a particular effect, how details can be shifted for greater impact, how inconvenient information can be overlooked and titles made to sound more salable. And soon hustlers are saying, we want to build a new organization around you, hooking the experiencer further to the great “You are so special” machine, and the person finds himself on the tightrope walk between a genuine passion to share the new understandings and the almost certain distortion of being managed, balancing old and new, private and public, all in the glare of adulation, which is narcotic. It is an impossible do-it-yourself task.

Eben Alexander is not the first near-death experiencer or person of note to find himself trapped between his humanness, his NDE, and an unforgiving publicity machine. He began at an elevated social level (“He’s a neurosurgeon!”) and was very quickly marketed to the skies by media attention, public appearances, and astronomical book sales. He shares with most other NDErs a conviction of having privileged information of value to humankind. It is only inevitable that while he would come to believe at least part of that adulation, others would be looking for the clay in his feet. It is equally inevitable that the materialist culture would look for ways to discredit his non-materialist NDE and his conclusions about it.

Esquire and author Luke Dittrich have produced a carefully researched, skillfully written article focusing on weak spots in Alexander’s professional life and character. The article is so well done, it quietly manages to throw a heavy veil of distrust over him, his book, and even his published NDE account. The article’s fallacy, however, is basic: its author’s inability to see the real issue.

What the article points out is that in the face of the media’s grandiose depictions of individuals for whatever reason, including exalted spiritual visions, they hold their treasure in earthen vessels (St. Paul said it, I didn’t). We do well to keep our expectations of experiencers in check. Everyone has shadow. Everyone has secrets. Hubris may be hubris; but it is our own doing if we buy it without thoughtful reflection. No NDEr is perfect and no interpretation of an NDE is the only one possible. The cynical responses of commenters reflect less on Alexander and more on their own credulity and lack of realistic perceptions, not to mention their absence of compassion for dragging someone else’s shadow issues through the public square.

Does Alexander’s history of shifting facts into his favor weigh against him? Of course. That is a personal message to him from his NDE; the Dalai Lama instantly spotted his need to deal with it. But does that destroy the value of his insights? No, though it suggests we haul out our old discernment kit. The great spiritual leaders, the founders of the world’s enduring traditions, have always been flawed in one sense or another; yet the message flows despite human failings.

Does that flawed personal history say anything about the far larger question of what NDEs may be saying about the limits of materialism and the existence of a spiritual dimension to human consciousness? Not a thing. Eben Alexander is discovering the price of spiritual enlightenment.


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